Granted, it doesn't go as far as asphyxiation. Yes, female mammals are naturally submissive, so to me, it's normal.
Along with this, I like my hair pulled and hard thrusts. For me, it has to do with the fantasy of being dominated. Just when I'm in the mood to get a little rougher. Personally, I don't enjoy it every single time I have sex. I can't tell you how many men I've been with, and how many women I've known that enjoy this. Reader, HelloooNurse +, writes (29 April 2010): If he entering from behind he will reach round and grab hold of my neck from the front, then I just shout at him to spank me, he will start off gently and then slap my butt until it looks like a red apple, at this point I always beg him to go back to choking me whilst I climax. Once we are getting into sex he will slide his hand up onto my neck and not apply any pressure - he is teasing me! and he knows it! he waits for me to grab his forearm and push it down to apply pressure on my neck. I love my boyfriend choking me! I am small with a small frame and I love the feeling of him been on top with his hand round my neck. Reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2010): if you are giving off signs that you don't like it (you probably don't say it if you don't want to offend him but you probably aren't as into it as a girl might be) and he's still doing it even though he can tell you don't.I don't know what to say. Here's the thing - I like it when my boyfriend treats me this way and sometimes boys like to play a little rough anyway so when they start getting like this and then draw back before it gets too intense "just in case", I encourage them to continue :P BUT you don't sound like you like it. Reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2010): I told my female friend this and she said "thats hot" Is this normal? Why do people like this?įancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! My boyfriend likes to choke me during sex. Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!